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Ember - Hayley DeRoche

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About the speaker

Meet our Ember speaker, Hayley DeRoche: poet, humorist, and public librarian (and someone who knows that the quietest shelves often hold the most heat!).

She's the creator of the viral "Sad Beige" TikTok series (@officialsadbeige), covered by the BBC, the Washington Post, the New York Times, and more, racking up half a million followers and setting conversations ablaze along the way.

But long before the algorithm noticed, Hayley was already doing what librarians and poets do best… tending the embers. Holding space for the stories that don't need to be loud to last. Her newest book, Dress Your Baby in Sage and Taupe, is exactly that: a warm glow of goodness.

April's theme is Ember. Join us as we unpack this global theme locally, and hear how Hayley ignites and reignites conversations through her poetry, wit, and words. Follow more of her work at hayleyderoche.com.

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Our theme for April is EMBER. It was chosen by our Poulsbo chapter in Washington and illustrated by Sarah Gordon.

The literal meaning of ember is a small piece of burning or glowing coal or wood in a dying fire. But as a metaphor, it means so much more.

Our Poulsbo chapter had this to say about the significance of this month’s theme:

“Embers represent the quiet, enduring remnants of fire—what remains after the intensity fades. They carry a smoldering potential, a subtle strength that holds heat long after the flames have gone. As a quieter community outside the city, we may not always burn the brightest, but we never burn out. Our spark lives in reflection, resilience, and the space we have to pause, think, and grow.

In those calm moments, we find what many others miss: the steady glow of ideas, relationships, and dreams that don’t need noise to thrive. Embers remind us that even after challenges or change, something powerful remains—ready to reignite when needed. We hold that same quiet fire within ourselves, and in community with each other, we kindle more.

Together, we tend the quiet fire—fueling one another through presence, care, and shared warmth.”

What ember is quietly glowing inside you? And what new fire will it ignite in your life?