Love Lessons: Using Sex Therapy to Improve Every Relationship

We choose the degree to which we invest in relationships.

Active listening is a two-way street.

The relationship escalator is that idea: we hopped on the escalator at the same time, we're all going to go at the same pace.

Let's say I want to live in New York, my partner wants to live in LA. The solution is not to move to Kansas. No one is happy. We all lose.

In a world with the relationship escalator and the expectation that monogamy is the only way to do things, we cultivate jealousy.