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Donte Woods-Spikes

PAIN | Our Pain is Unique

part of a series on Pain

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Donte proposes that comparing our painful experiences to others might be preventing our own healing journey.

TEDx speaker, storyteller, and writer Donte Woods-Spikes explores how pain has been a part of his own journey and describes what he learned in the process of finding healing. As a teacher and mentor, Donte lost a young person he cared for deeply. Moving through this painful process and finding healing helped him to realize that sometimes what’s stopping us from feeling— and growing— is the ways we compare our experiences to others. We focus on what we “should” be feeling or how we “should” be healing instead of being with what is. He encourages us to see all of our experiences as unique, and to move through them in our own times and ways.

About the speaker

Donte Woods-Spikes is known for various forms of work such as professional speaking which landed him on the TEDx Stage and Sundance Film Festival for his film, As a Matter of Black. in 2021, Donte became an author writing his first book, So. Long.: Unfinished Good-byes with the Children of COVID-19 which revisits powerful lessons children taught him during his time working in Columbus City Schools before the pandemic. His book has been highlighted in the Ohioana Book Festival, The Thurber House, and Buckeye Book Festival.

Donte is an advocate for storytelling of all forms. His contributions to encouraging authentic storytelling include working alongside The Columbus Foundation as a Big Table ambassador and a TEDx organizer. He started his own storytelling workshop titled Voices of Empathy which walks people through organizing stories and presenting in front of crowds.

Donte is also the creator of the social movement Empathize With Me. EWM goal is to provide genuine lessons, relationships, and empathy through storytelling. Donte's overall goal is to educate and connect the world beyond perceptions and stereotypes with authentic experiences through storytelling and documentation.

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